Saturday, November 24, 2012

Don't Fake the Best, Be the Best


There was a saying I would often
hear growing up, “fake it till you make
it.” I never knew the origin of this
saying, however, I found myself using it
from time to time. One day in a casual
conversation with a seasoned educator,
she scorned me for using the saying. She
emphatically reprimanded me for using
such a saying in any form or context as
it related to myself. She then went on
to remind me of my many accomplishments
and achievements throughout the years
she’d known me.
This brief interaction leads us
into our fist confession, “Don’t fake
the best, be the best!” Confession- 1
As leader of your building, it
is necessary that you demonstrate
the highest level of know how and the
deepest level of humility. The know
how you will demonstrate through task,
obstacles, situations, and as problems
present themselves. The humility must
arise when you do not have the expertise
in situations. It is at that point you
exercise humility and acknowledge what
you do not know. Always remember, “ the
biggest room in the house, is the room
for improvement.” When you acknowledge
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what you do not know, you allow yourself
to fill that void with new information,
thus eliminating areas of personal
deficiencies.
Additionally, you show your staff
that it is OK for them not to know
everything. In this ever evolving/
digital universe, new information
emerges every millisecond of the day.
You admitting your areas of improvement
will aid your staff in identifying
theirs and place them on a journey to
improvement.
The opposite of humility is overt
arrogance. Taking on a posture of “Know
it all” closes the energies of growth
amongst any organization. When the
Principal has this thwarted demeanor,
an intended place of learning becomes a
valley of isolated pockets filled with
disconnected members, afraid to venture
out into the world of, “ I don’t know.”
Not knowing is the greatest
experience to educational conquest. “A
man in search of water will not stop
until his thirst is quenched. Likewise,
a man who goes out in search of knowledge
shall never return.” When you erroneously
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believe you “Know it all”, you stop
growing and stop searching for new
knowledge. This destroys your leadership
and attracting influence to potential
followers. What right-minded staff
will follow a decaying leader. But
a leader who is constantly training
and conditioning their mind for an
adventurous educational diaspora is one
who is not faking the best, but becoming
the best.

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